I recently posted up on facebook this post:
And got this response..
I opened a private conversation with Mina to ask about how she saw the world to understand how she could amount the meaning of that post to mean "materialistic and unbecoming".
The results of what I discovered in my conversation were, that Mina hasn't specified for herself what it means to be wealthy. She likes to exist in generalities and ideas that never touch the ground through a real world example.
Also, I understand that she sees money more than she sees people. The example of when she brings up Shaq and Mike Tyson when I'm asking her about what excess means. She values being right and significant more than being actual and progressive.
When she brought up excess, she couldn't articulate excess about what. she didn't have any kind of example or description of what excess of anything she was talking about.
Excess of money?
Excess of love?
Excess of forethought?
Excess of specificity?
I tried asking her what exactly she meant in many multiples of ways, but with no avail, she avoided any kind of clear picture like a shot of wheatgrass.
She says she doesn't like men who are mysterious, like a puzzle and that she can't figure out. I asked her this because she was being this way with me and I wondered if this is something she knew that she found attractive because she was doing it with me right then. This to me says she's gullible and falls for the wrong guys with bad intentions. She attracts what she is being. What she's being is unclear, mysterious, shady and dodgy.
"Although our intellect always longs for clarity and certainty, our nature often finds uncertainty fascinating." -Carl von Clausewitz
Sounds like she may never know for herself. Let's hope she get's more specific with what that means to her. Everyone deserves to be, do and have what they want in life. One of the main reasons why so many people like Mina don't get what they want, is because they never clearly specify what exactly they want in the first place.
If you can see it in your mind, you can believe it.
If you can believe it in your heart, you can achieve it.
If you can't see it in your mind, you have no clue about what to believe.
If you don't know what to believe, you can't trust anyone or anything.
Here's the conversation that was more like a wild goose chase for me and basically a warning of someone to never be like.
To put it shortly..
Ladies, don't be this girl..
Enjoy!
What's new since we talked last?
What's up with your post. It's so superficial
thanks for your feedback..
Husband's in jail filed for divorce
How do you see it as superficial?
Heart and trust is everything
At home. Independent contractor
What does money mean to you?
to live. I'm not concerned about excess
Excess becomes gross to me
If I were concerned about that I wouldve dated Shaq when he chased me for a month.
What repelled you about him?
Not repelled just not attracted
If you're not attracted, you're repelled somehow..
Money is an evil necessity
How does that have to do with money?
what does Shaq have in common with money?
Well most girls will date any guy with money. I am proud to say it is not a factor for me
When did he try pursuing you?
He offered to fly me out for a date. Mike Tyson also asked me out. Clearly I rejected him.
Money is only necessary to live. It is meaningless when factoring whether I'd date someone
and that's significant to you still today?
So Mike Tyson and Shaquille O'Neal asked you out and all you saw was money, so you said "no"?
What stopped you from seeing the person?
No I wasn't attracted so I said no
Whether they were rich or poor
What attracts and interests you?
In the person not their net worth
what attracts you about a person?
Physical attributes, morals, ethics, honesty, compassion, kindness
what physical attributes?
Sense of humor. Actually shark has a great sense of humor that was one thing he had going for him
a 'shark' that has a great sense of humor is attractive to you?
It's something that you feel right away and is different for each person
Ok. A sense of humor is attractive?
Yes but it takes more than that. Physical attraction comes first
Otherwise there's no passion
Ok, physical attraction..
I'm sure when I'm elderly physical attraction won't matter
What kind of person do you find physically attractive?
Who's an example of someone who's physically attractive?
Physical attributes, morals, ethics, honesty, compassion, kindness
So describing what physical attraction looks like is uncomfortable for you to talk about?
Who would you say are examples of physical attraction in the celebrity world?
Someone that everyone knows..
They are very different and it's not a black and white situation. There are shades of grey
So you aren't comfortable with describing it..
I don't know them so I can't answer that
got it.. it's something you avoid
I'm not uncomfortable you are assuming
So the most important thing that comes first is a nebulous dream cloud that is attractive..
I'm just going off what you're giving me
Nope you're not getting it
I may like someone's eyes another person's mouth
So, physical attraction comes first..
who's someone who has attractive eyes to you?
Maybe check bones or symmetry
Do you have a picture of your husbands eyes?
Ok, so I have no way of knowing what you're talking about
I don't have any. I got rid of them
do you like mysterious men/
Men who are a puzzle that you can't figure out?
What shows transparency to you?
what's an example of honesty and truth and transparency?
Ok, so you have no real world example to depict what you're talking about
It's in the dictionary. Not false
I have no way of knowing what you have inside your head.. you can't describe what an example of it would show up as, and you don't have any pictures to illustrate what you mean.
yeah, that's the word. I get it.
Attraction is not black and white
but you're not describing what truth looks like to you
and you're talking more about what isn't than what is..
I don't make up definitions
I know you think you're deep but you're pretty shallow
you're playing word games and it's purposeless
Attraction is not just one thing there are many things about a person that can be attractive
Sent me this just pointless and running around in a circle and I don't do that
There's no depth in asking me to just find truth when truth already has a definition
thanks for your feedback..
Define not just find speech to text
No, I'm asking you what an example of what truth looks like and means to you..
I don't want to assume, I want to understand.
truth looks like what the definition is
Is a very simple that's why we have words and dictionaries so that we could understand what the words mean
No, it doesn't. that's the definition..
the idea of what truth is. the principle
I don't make up special definitions for words I go ahead and use the ones that are provided to me
I'm talking about an action, an embodiment
What does someone do, that let's know know they're truthful?
For me listen describe everything that I considered to be true would be a huge waste of time
what actions does someone take that tells you that they are truthful, honest and transparent?
The act of being truthful
Yep, that's what I'm asking about.. what's an examlpe
You must have a lot of time on your hands
When they say the sky is blue and I look outside and see that the skies blue
I think I'm getting a migraine from this conversation
I don't know I've never met her
And I don't care because I don't know her
Ok. Well, thanks for your feedback
Sorry you don't care enough to know what an example of the idea of truth looks like
Do you take any sort of drugs
I know what the example of truth is there's two lians what's the point
Truth is there's a definition for it I followed that definition I suggest you do the same it's silly not to
I help people get off drugs, alcohol and cigarettes
It's alright.. I appreciate your effort
I'm not putting forth any effort I'm being out right with you and you're playing word games and I'm not sure why
What makes you think I'm playing word games?
Yes you are you think you're deep but it's a very shallow conversation
Ok, thanks for your assumpion
Truth has already been defined I don't need to define it for someone else
I'm asking what truth looks like to you rather than just the idea that I could google and understand for myself..
Truth looks like its definition
you don't have anything more specific to share with me about what truth, honesty and transparency looks like in a situation or real world example to help me understand and get the picture.
Just pop up in the dictionary all of those words have meanings
Ok, yes. Thanks. I already knew about that
I don't change the meanings the meanings stay as they are
Alright so have a good night cuz this is giving me a headache
I experience you deflecting and hiding..
thanks for your feedback though..
You're wrong I'm just being honest and you're not accepting it
I'm hearing what you're saying..
I have no reason to deflect from you I don't even know you
I'm just asking for beyond what you're giving me..
I'm asking for more depth and specifity
You're so far off base you think too deep but you're not
Then show me what it looks like..
teach me how to be more deep
you're asking me to give you a different definition then was in the dictionary
I asked nothing about a dictionary or definition.. you're not hearing me
you think I'm asking you for a definition.. I'm not
I could google that myself.. why would I ask you for that/
I'm asking about Minas world.
I'm asking about what does truth look like through Minas eyes.
you're withholding and deflecting..
you're accusing and assuming
If there's anything that comes to mind about an example or how it shows up in a specific way that you'd recognize, let me know..
Again, thanks for your feedback
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